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My Honest Labor & Delivery Story —

I didn’t have a strict birth plan this time — just hopes, preferences, and the memory of a good experience with my first delivery. What I didn’t expect was how different everything would feel while still holding onto the goodness I was hoping for. Here’s Maier’s birth story—

🌿 Maier’s Birth Story

Born May 7th, 2025 – 11:43 AM

My due date was May 15th, but everything about this pregnancy felt heavy — physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I was dealing with hyperemesis gravidarum, which made most days unbearable. I was sick constantly, weak, and so uncomfortable I barely recognized myself. On top of that, I was going through a lot of emotional turmoil at home. I felt really unsupported, which added a whole new layer of grief to an already exhausting season.

In the days leading up to Maier’s birth, I had signs of early labor that kept me guessing. I even went to the hospital twice — once thinking my water had broken, and once convinced I was in labor — only to be sent home both times. It was emotionally defeating.

I didn’t have a strict birth plan, just some preferences. I had a really positive birthing experience with my first son in Florida back in 2022, and I honestly worried this one wouldn’t measure up. But it did — in all the ways that mattered most.

At around 3 a.m. on May 7th, I woke up with a strong contraction — one that jolted me out of sleep. I knew instantly this was it. I woke Tim and we headed to Huntington Hospital. I labored for a few hours and eventually got an epidural. The baby wasn’t descending because I had too much amniotic fluid, and it was risky to break my water all at once. They opted for a slow-leak procedure instead, but my body had other plans — my water broke with a huge gush anyway. The nurses said it was a lot of fluid.

Despite all the unpredictability, I felt really safe and cared for. My birth team was incredible — supportive midwives and amazing nurses. I even remember waving to one of them mid-birth as she walked in during her day off. That small moment felt grounding and strangely joyful.

When it came time to push, I didn’t feel a dramatic urge — just a quiet sense that it was time. I’ve always found pushing difficult since I don’t feel much, so I never quite know if I’m making progress. But 45 minutes later, Maier was here.

He was born with the cord loosely wrapped around his neck, and they discovered a false knot in his umbilical cord — something that thankfully hadn’t been visible on any ultrasound. Had I known about it ahead of time, I probably would’ve panicked, but in the end it was harmless.

Maier was born at 11:43 a.m., weighing 6 pounds 3 ounces and measuring 19 inches long. He didn’t cry when he came out — just quietly took in the world, calm and peaceful. Because there was meconium in the amniotic fluid, a neonatologist checked him over right away, but everything was fine.

I was completely intact — something I hadn’t experienced with my first birth — and the physical recovery has been night-and-day easier. I felt good almost immediately. I’ve been feeding Maier on demand, usually every two hours, and it’s been going really well without the pressure of pumping.

Even though this pregnancy and season of life came with so much pain and uncertainty, I’m deeply grateful for the hospital, the team, and how it all came together in the end. Maier’s birth was healing in ways I didn’t expect. It reminded me that even when things don’t look like you hoped, grace can still show up — loud or quiet, but always faithful.

🌸 What Surprised Me

• The amount of amniotic fluid — and how that changed the birth plan
• How calm and peaceful Maier was at birth
• The emotional safety I felt with my birth team
• How easy recovery felt this time around